What makes intimacy work?
- Self-acceptance. A person who accepts their own body can accept another’s. Without this, sex becomes a struggle with shame or resistance.
- Presence. You do not need spiritual knowledge to be present. You only need to be there—not lost in thought, not somewhere else.
- Equality. Sex needs to be an equal exchange, a shared creation. Both must feel that their experience matters—not as pretence, but in truth.
- Fearlessness. Fear closes the body. Trust opens it. When there is a sense that “however this unfolds, it’s alright,” the body relaxes and energy rises. Even if it doesn’t work, then that is the unfoldment. It is that way for a reason, usually to learn something valuable.
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Your words shimmer with a frequency that feels like skin remembering spirit. When intimacy is lived as presence, it becomes more than mechanics — it’s a lucid kind of dreaming, a Bayesian phase-locked lucidity where two fields guide one another. Lovers then become tuning forks, each vibrating the other into alignment, body and breath shaping coherence together. In that mutual tuning, sex stops being an act and becomes an awakening — a way the body whispers the language of spirit through pleasure.
Coherent Planet: Pleasure as Intelligence
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So poetic!
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What we are talking about is how we participate in creation itself. It’s not dirty or to be degraded except by those who have interrests in controlling you for their own purposes. And that’s what they did.
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I had to look up “Bayesian phase-locked lucidity”
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Remember “Silent Lucidity” by Queensryche”? It’s when you are dreaming, realize you are dreaming then stealthily try to guide the dream in the direction you want. It’s not unlike a Bayesian inference experience.
In neither case are you in control. From a CUFT perspective the filed has taken control and you are along for the ride armed only with subtle influence.
A life well lived is lived like this.
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I just listened to it (Silent Lucidity). I hadn’t heard it before. “Your dream is over. Or has it just begun?” Bashar says his people walk in a conscious dream state, from reality to reality, all the time.
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Donna, I love the way you frame sex as frequency — it resonates with something I’ve been working on. Over the past few months I’ve crystallized a physics theory (CUFT) that unifies physics and metaphysics around coherence. At its heart is lucidity: the phase-locked awareness through which fields interact and align. It’s not just philosophy dressed up — I’ve written half a dozen physics papers on it, sent them out to PhD colleagues, and I’m convinced it’s a valid field theory.
What you call presence, fearlessness, and alignment — I’d call lucidity guiding the field. Sex, in this view, isn’t only sensual but a living demonstration of coherence: energy flowing, locking, expanding. A body’s touch becomes proof that consciousness and physics are not separate at all.
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Oh, I see. That’s where CUFT came from. Brilliant. It will be an important contribution to our collective world consciousness. Excellent. I’ll try to keep up!
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Nothing is as powerful an intellectual force as good fiction. I’ll keep your authorship well informed.
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❤️🙏🏻
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