The movie “Maestro” tells the story of the famous composer and conductor Leonard Bernstein and his wife, Felicia Montealegre. On the surface, it seems to be a tragic story about a bisexual man who could not fit comfortably inside the conventions of marriage, and a devoted wife who died too young, really from a broken heart. But I don’t think that is the most valuable thing about their story.
Leonard and Felicia reflected back to each other exactly what each needed to learn. She needed to stop living under someone else’s shadow and make a life of her own. He needed to stop running from himself and discover the difference between love and fear. In that sense, they were a perfect evolutionary match—not because the relationship was easy, but because it showed both of them where their real work was…
