We’ll Be Fine: A Conversation about Reality

Recently, a friend spoke to me about his fears for the future of AI — control, greed, power, and the possibility of technology being used badly. In the past, I might have tried to persuade him that if enough people focused on a better outcome, the world could move in that direction. Instead, I simply put my hand on his arm and said, “Don’t worry. We’ll all be fine.”

That response came from a different understanding of reality: not as one fixed track that everyone must collectively steer, but as many possible realities with which we are continually aligning. Attention is directional. What we repeatedly focus on influences the kind of world we experience and the choices we make within it. This does not remove the need for practical action, compassion, or responsibility. It means that fear is not the only lens available to us. We can choose to orient ourselves towards the reality we most wish to inhabit.

—Consciousness Continuing COMING 2027

Cake and Courage

When I left my first marriage at thirty-three, I had two young children, no work outside the home, and very little understanding of what a property settlement would mean. After my first meeting with a lawyer, I went downstairs to an expensive city cafe and ordered tea and cake. I remember thinking, This could be the last time I ever sit somewhere like this and order something without worrying about the cost. Then another thought came just as clearly: Nevertheless, this is still the right decision. This is still worth it.

That small moment stayed with me because courage rarely comes with certainty. Sometimes it means choosing what feels true without knowing what it will cost or how things will turn out. The tea and cake became a quiet acknowledgement of that choice: I am willing to pay whatever this costs, because not choosing it would cost me more.

Consciousness Continuing COMING 2027